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I hope this message finds you well. I’ve been reflecting deeply on our relationship and the journey we’ve been on together. As your father, it’s both a privilege and a challenge to navigate the complex terrain between us. I want to share my thoughts and feelings, hoping that we can address the issues that have been affecting us.

First and foremost, I want you to know how proud I am of you. Watching you grow and pursue your passions has been one of the greatest joys of my life. Your talent, dedication, and drive are inspiring. However, with that pride comes a responsibility to be honest about the dynamics of our relationship and the impact it’s had on both of us.

Over the years, I’ve noticed that our bond has been strained by various factors. Part of it is the immense pressure of living up to expectations—both yours and mine. I understand that being my son means you are often in the spotlight, and that can be incredibly daunting. There are moments when I feel like I’m not just your father but also a mentor, a coach, and sometimes even a rival. This blurred line can create confusion and tension, and I want to address it openly.

There have been times when my expectations may have seemed overwhelming or my feedback harsh. I recognize that my enthusiasm and desire for you to excel might have come across as criticism rather than support. For that, I am truly sorry. My intention has always been to guide and encourage you, not to impose unrealistic standards or overshadow your own aspirations.

I also realize that our relationship is not just about what happens on the track or in the public eye. It’s about the personal connection we share, and I want to be more mindful of that. The strain of our competitive environment sometimes makes it difficult to separate professional from personal, and I regret if that has caused any hurt or frustration.

One of the most important things I’ve learned through this process is the need for open and honest communication. I want us to be able to talk about our feelings, our fears, and our hopes without reservation. If there’s ever anything that bothers you or if you feel that I’m not fully supporting you in the way you need, please don’t hesitate to let me know. I am here not just as your father but as someone who deeply cares about your well-being and happiness.

It’s crucial for us to reconnect on a personal level and reaffirm our bond. We need to remember that beyond our professional lives and the public persona, we are family. Our relationship should be built on mutual respect, love, and understanding, not just the shared experiences of competition or achievement.

I hope we can work through these challenges together and find a way to strengthen our connection. I am committed to supporting you, not just as a father but as someone who believes in your potential and values our relationship deeply. Let’s take this opportunity to rebuild and move forward with a renewed sense of trust and empathy.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I am here whenever you want to talk or need anything.

With all my love,